We are living in an era where premarital sex is the norm and extramarital sex is far more common than blieved.

We are living in an era where sexual expectations and behaviors are being strongly influenced by porno -- an industry that far outstrips mainstream motion pictures by producing 13,000 videos each year resulting in $9 billion in yearly profit.  

What is now the ModernDirections / VarietalSex site was started a number of years ago by two women doctors (PhDs). As a fellow professional I took over the site after learning from clients that it had helped them with personal and relationship problems.

With the changes in sexual attitudes and behaviors today, we feel this information is more relevant than ever. 

 Featured Articles 

"What's considered wrong, sinful and even illegal has radically changed over the years." Dr. Ronny West

I'll Probably Regret This But...
Explaining Pornography to Our Daughter
Noises From the Next Apartment

Sexual Liberation for Today's Women
Coping With Jealousy
Insufficient Data

Is Sex Good For Your Health?
A Successful 18-Year Open Marriage
The Man in 1204
The Bible vs. Women

Letter of Advice From A Teen-age, White, Middle-class Prostitute
Why I'm Having An Affair (from a man)
45 Reasons for Affairs

Telling a Guy My Wife Is "Easy"
Should You Share Your Sexual Fantasies With Your Spouse?

"This Hotwife Thing"
If In Doubt, Don't

Getting Him to Let You Have A Black Lover
My Wife's 51st Shade of Grey
Why I Got My Wife Started With Other Men
Is This Revenge Porn?
My Daughter -- Should I Praise Her or Punish Her?

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No One Asked Her To Dance
Your Philosophy (Discussion)

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Dr. David Weston

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