We are living in an era where premarital sex is the norm and extramarital sex is far more common than believed.

We are living in an era where sexual expectations and behaviors are being strongly influenced by porno -- an industry that far outstrips mainstream motion pictures by producing 13,000 videos each year resulting in $9 billion in yearly profit.  

What is now the ModernDirections / VarietalSex site was started a number of years ago by two women doctors (PhDs) who recognized the direction of change in human sexuality. Most of the hundreds of letters received are from men.

Featured Articles 

"What's considered wrong, sinful and even illegal has radically changed over the years."

I'll Probably Regret This But...
Explaining Pornography to Our Daughter
Noises From the Next Apartment

Sexual Liberation for Today's Women
Coping With Jealousy
Insufficient Data

Is Sex Good For Your Health?
A Successful 18-Year Open Marriage
The Man in 1204
The Bible vs. Women

Letter of Advice From A Teen-age, White, Middle-class Prostitute
Why I'm Having An Affair (from a man)
45 Reasons for Affairs

Telling a Guy My Wife Is "Easy"
Should You Share Your Sexual Fantasies With Your Spouse?

"This Hotwife Thing"
If In Doubt, Don't

Is Sex Evil? (Discussion)
Why I Got My Wife Started With Other Men
Is This Revenge Porn?
My Daughter -- Should I Praise Her or Punish Her?

 red dot No One Asked Her To Dance
Your Philosophy (Discussion)
red dot Screwing Yourself

red dot My Wife and Other Men (With a follow-up)
red dot Granting My Wife Sexual Freedom

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